Resistance. Stress. Anxiety. Struggle. Anger. Sorrow. Frustration. Hurt. Worry.
These are our signs to stop – and pay attention.
Just like the stop signs we see every day while driving…. it, along with these emotions, are there for our protection.
They come from our intuition. That gut feeling we get, but usually don’t follow. Our intuition guides us to the path with least resistance. Aka…less struggle, more flow and joy.
So, I encourage you the next time you are trying to do something and for whatever reason it is just not happening at all and it is an incredible struggle to do what it is you are wanting to do…see it as your sign, and stop. Completely stop and either go do something else…or just sit. And wait. And watch.
Watch your mind go from crazy to more relaxed.
And watch the solution present itself. Sometimes right away. Sometimes later in the day or the following day.
Resistance of what is creates more resistance. The more we try and force something…the farther away we push it. Let go, and let it be. Even forget about it for awhile. This allows the energy from yourself and whatever it is you’re trying to do flow freely again and the solution will be able to fix itself with utter ease.
I feel we all kind of really wish there was an easy button for life or a written out step by step guide on how to live an incredibly fulfilled joyful life.
Well….there kind of is.
It’s our intuition.
It literally guides us moment by moment. Letting us know if we are going in the wrong direction or if what we are doing is aligned.
The only problem is we have gotten really good at ignoring it and instead, doing what we think we should be doing or what society tells us to do.
We’ve become stuck on ‘thinking’ instead of feeling.
Thinking usually leads us in the opposite direction. Feeling tells us exactly what we need to live joyously.
But wait!…it’s too vulnerable and feminine to feel.
No. That’s society and your ‘thinking mind’ talking. It is actually extremely powerful to be able to understand the connection between feeling and doing. And those times you come across someone who has figured this completely out, they are actually kind of intimidating. Not in a threatened way, but in a wow, they seem to have a really good grasp on this living thing.
One day….this will be taught in schools. Maybe it does in some already.
I know statistics and complex chemical equations come into play in the lives of many…but understanding the basic foundation of how to live in the bodies we are in…and in a way that helps us thrive and live out life the best way possible….I feel that should come first.
Understanding we have a built in guide that lets us know the direction of most joy, most peace, most ease….man, I wish I would have known that earlier!
– Struggle becomes almost non-existent. ( Almost because everything has an opposite. We can’t have peace without chaos)
– Joy and ease of living become the normal way of being. Not just an occasional awesome day or anticipation build up for a vacation.
We have forgotten the importance of listening to our intuition. It’s been put on the back burner.
Let’s remember what it feels like to follow it. To follow the joy.
The joy that this life is really all about.